Prince Charming
Being good-looking and strong can only get you so far, For success you'll need to pack some charm men have never considered charm to be an much of an asset , and don't hold it high on their list of priorities, Some men think of charm as feminine. This is a big mistake. While charm is no substitute for Good looks and personality, It can make a lasting impression with Friends and colleagues, and make thing go smoother with sales persons and other people you meet. it will definitely help you establish a place in a woman's heart ( and possibly her bed) Being able to put your words together properly and to deliver them smoothly can be one's biggest asset, to know the right words can save you from embarrassment , and the ability to diffuse or neutralize any situation that may arise , and with practice, you'll develop charm as your nature.
Forget what you think you know about charm, such as addressing the girl by her name before or after each sentence, forget staring deep into their eyes as if you are looking in there brain, adopt our rules below, make them part of your day and eventually part of your personality. then, you will see , and you better get ready to enjoy all you've ever wanted and much more than you ever expected , You're whole life will change, you will make more friends you will get better deals, save money, you will best of all, become the crush of many women around you.
1) Charm her
the one most charming thing a man can do is provide total attention to the person he is talking to, and ability to focus and interact well, make the person feel important , not by over complimenting them. Simply pay total attention to them while you are interacting, let them know they have your attention and most of all make them feel like they matter , and what they say matters. Oprah Winfrey is One of the most charming people on television today , and maybe ever. watch her audience, if she is talking a certain way her entire audience is in tears, how ever she can pump up and audience. Her charm is what has brought her the fame she has today, her ability to word her sentences and deliver them so everyone understands exactly what she means , so it always goes over smooth. The way she pays attention to what people say to her, and her focus on what is is said is incredible so she never finds herself in a situation where she doesn't know what to say . bottom line make people feel important, everybody likes to feel important.
A little note, It should be said that respect for people is the key to charm, respect for peoples feelings and situations, will eventually allow you to charm the clothes off a attractive woman who you desire. Some people believe that a deep intense start into the eyes is charming, In my opinion I find this a little creepy, I hate being "looked into" some women will find this kind of gaze intrusive. how many women do you know that find "stalkers" charming. don't get me wrong, eye contact is important but never over do it, give short glances , enough to let the person you are conversing with know you are listening and that they do have your attention.
when you interact with people let them feel as if they are the only thing that matters, at that time. Put you and who ever you are conversing with, whether it be 1 person or your colleges at work, in a shield as if you are the only people on earth at that moment.
2) Charm is mischievous
Don't let life's daily routines put out your fire, the daily grind can wear you and your imagination out big-time. You follow a routine all day at work don't let routine control your life outside of work. take you wife out, do something special. bring her dancing , maybe just stay home and "play together". Come home and hug her firmly and kiss her deeply and tell her you love her don't make this an everyday occasion . Just come home some days and let her know that she matters. Let her know that you appreciate her and that you are glad you are with her . It feels good to have someone tell you your special, and if you tell people they start to feel special.
3) Smile in small doses
Another over used "charm trick" is the smile, constant smiling can be unattractive as well as annoying, a friendly smile is better if used in small doses. leave mystery and Value to your smile something that is not always display has more importance when it is, making your smiles valuable.
4) Be confident
Be proud of who you are and make others feel comfortable with being them selves, don't insult people or peoples traits. Let people be themselves and they will open up to you. a charming man is proud of who he is and proud of what he is doing with his life. this unfortunately can be messed up by mans natural tendencies to tell it like it is. this can be a problem sometimes, always try to say nice things and keep the negative to yourself if it is directed at someone and may hurt there feelings.
make people feel like they are the most interesting person in the world
5) Be appreciative
Frequent subtle displays of appreciation can be a major asset to the charming man. letting people know that you appreciate the thing they do for you. nothing goes further than a simple thank you . the absence of a "thank you" can however be disastrous on relationships and the chance of people being willing to help you . to show your appreciation, occasionally fire out a few thank you notes to people who have helped you or done something you appreciate. do this once weekly or monthly. just a quick note to say thanks. people love to know that they are appreciated as well as knowing that they have helped someone. while phone call and email" thank you" 's are great to , nothing stands up to an old fashioned snail mail of thanks to let someone know you are thankful.
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6) Always remembers
now body likes knowing that what they tell you is forgotten, example you ask a new acquaintance where they live and have some more small chat. two weeks later, same questions same answers, " you didn't remember a word said to you, people won't engage in conversation with you if they feel their words will be forgotten . people associate forgotten with" unimportant" they feel that obviously their conversation wasn't worth remembering. and there fore why should they continue to speak with you. people like to be remembered once again making them feel important. Life these days can be very hectic and its easy for us to let simple thing be forgotten, try using a notepad or post-it notes or even keep a daily journal, this will ultimately lead to improved memory, you will be more likely to remember things not even reading them but simply because you wrote them down.
7) Be Different
Something that is rare is seen as more valuable according to basic supply and demand rules, It it the same thing when it comes to charm, We live in a different time and there are a lots of smart asses out there. Don't go with the flow, charm will show its face as well spoken well mannered man, and this is the man that will stick out amongst all the others, and appeal to the women much more. In these crazy days an Ebonics , a little proper grammar can go along way and make a lasting good impression on the person you are talking to .
I don't mean totally proper 1800's English, just not incoherent babble
These days proper conversation is diminished by the need to crack a joke, which can not be charming at all , a little joke here and there is nice, but remember that people like to feel like they are being taken seriously. Cracking a joke after every time someone says something can make them feel ridiculed. and that is not good.
8) Be exciting
The One thing in many charming males way is the "grump" associated with being a strong male, fathers grandfathers and other figures of authority are know to be stone faced . many people think that to be strong you cannot show to much happiness or enjoyment , this is simply not true . while an overly positive and upbeat person can be irritating, it is okay to show enjoyment or upbeat moods! excitement and enjoyment are not signs of weakness. you don't have to be the grump that some of our fathers were, and grandfathers before them . We often confuse strength with severity. And we're just the slightest bit reluctant to risk being shamelessly upbeat. Ten minutes ago, I overheard one of my colleagues shout out to another, "You make my job fun." He said it in a straight-ahead tone, joyful in his gratitude, unashamed by the simplicity of the sentiment. Charming. Strong. "I hate a song that makes you feel you're no good," said the troubadour Woody Guthrie. "I'm out to fight those songs to my very last breath of air and my last drop of blood." Charm has the confidence to sing praises.
9) Charm has purpose
Most charming men life as thought they have purpose and usually have leadership traits that are noticeable, it makes life more enjoyable if you feel like you are striving to get somewhere, or to finish a particular task, to have purpose or reason shows that you work to achieve your goals and you are headed somewhere , which we all know that is something women find very attractive . No woman will partner with a mate who has no future plans or ambitions for themselves , women like to feel that life has purpose and that something is to be achieved before the end. Let women see that your life has purpose it will let them know that you are goal oriented and strive for success.
10) love women
A charming man makes ladies and girls of all ages feel beautiful and attractive, make s them feel important. I don't mean buy yelling " hey ladies nice tits" or "show me your ass!" while those remarks, can in strange instances be charming , they usually are not. try to be subtle but sweet and let her know that she is attractive in a physical way, not just sexual, a charming male will refer to eyes, or simply state that she looks good today , and always of course.
while of course it may never happen, the look in a charming man's eyes and the tone of his voice gives women a feeling as thought if they have met somewhere else under different stars there night may had been different, Let the woman subtly know you you have taken notice of her sexual beauty, also make sure this is done tenderly and soft, and of course smooth and subtle. avoid being the creep! do not come right out and explain vivid fantasies , but let her take notice as you take a small peek at her " sexual" parts, once again don't stare just a peek, but let her catch you.
Once she has taken notice you have interest in her, you will clearly be able to see if the feeling is mutual.
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